Home but not alone on New Year’s Eve

MUMBAI: As the year draws to a close, the question on everyone’s lips is: So what are your new year plans? There are those who plan and book tables in advance while others claw their way on to invitation lists. But there are those like actor Rahul Khanna who are somewhat party-proof.
“I don’t care about the parties, I’m quite happy to be at home.For me the big deal is the food—turkey and ham and plum cake. And I don’t like being told what to do, so I don’t decide what I’m doing in advance, but just take it off the bat.’’
For socialite Pooja Bedi, it’s about packing in a bit of everything. “I love partying, but Christmas is a big thing at home, with a Christmas tree, stockings and presents for all (her dog Taffy gets a gourmet canine treat). Last Christmas I was getting divorced, so I spent it at home with the kids watching movies. And on New Year’s Day I was up at 8 a.m. working out in the gym.’’ Yet others escape from themselves a bit, step back and look at the Big Picture.
Says Vedanta teacher Acharya Ram Mohan, “For the last six years, on New Year’s Eve, I’ve been holding a session for people who are sick of all the festival madness, who want a time of quiet contemplation and spiritual growth.’’
The fact that most of those attending are in their 20s, shows that it doesn’t take long to look beyond the bright lights.
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